Thursday, April 30, 2015

Sadbh’s update – April 30, 2015 – Photos and quote of the day


Today was a good day but things got a little stressful in the evening. Katie got a flat on the way home from work so I loaded the two kids into the car and headed across town in rush hour traffic to change the tire out.

We switched out cars and Katie stayed with the kids while I got down to business.
On the way home, Sadbh was chatting to Katie and came out with the following.
“I love daddy so I’m going to do daddy things. I love daddy so much so the sensitive of my heart goes to daddy’s blood”.
We have no idea where she comes up with these things and it was a wonderful way to ease off the stress after a hectic evening.

Close to home Katie had to pull to the side to make way for an ambulance and a police car. Just before this Sadbh was talking about how much she wants to drive. When Katie pulled over Sadbh asked why she did so and when Katie explained Sadbh responded with “I can’t ever drive”. Katie asked why and Sadbh said “because I do not know how to pull over”.







All the best,

Wayne, Katie, Sadbh and Cillian

Wednesday, April 29, 2015

Sadbh’s update – April 29, 2015 – Photos







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Wayne, Katie, Sadbh and Cillian

Tuesday, April 28, 2015

Sadbh’s update – April 28, 2015 – Photos







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Wayne, Katie, Sadbh and Cillian

Monday, April 27, 2015

Sadbh’s update – April 27, 2015 – Photos







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Wayne, Katie, Sadbh and Cillian

Sunday, April 26, 2015

Sadbh’s update – April 26, 2015 – Photos







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Wayne, Katie, Sadbh and Cillian

Sadbh’s update – April 25, 2015 – Photos






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Wayne, Katie, Sadbh and Cillian

Friday, April 24, 2015

Sadbh’s update – April 24, 2015 – Photos







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Wayne, Katie, Sadbh and Cillian

Thursday, April 23, 2015

Sadbh’s update – April 23, 2015 – Photos







All the best,

Wayne, Katie, Sadbh and Cillian

Wednesday, April 22, 2015

Sadbh’s update – April 22, 2015


Sadbh had her four year pediatrician check in today and despite not wanting to get her vaccination shots she surprised everyone by being very brave. All week she talked about hating shots and not wanting to get hers but when the time came she took both shots like a champ. 
Cillian on the other hand did not do so well and when he got his two vaccination shots he burst everyone's eardrums with his screams. Poor little guy. 

Sadbh's growth is on track and her hearing and eyesight is perfect. 

Katie went back to work on Monday and Sadbh, Cillian and I have had an amazing week so far. Let's hope this continues.






All the best,

Wayne, Katie, Sadbh and Cillian

Tuesday, April 21, 2015

Sadbh’s update – April 21, 2015 – Photos






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Wayne, Katie, Sadbh and Cillian


Monday, April 20, 2015

Sadbh’s update – April 20, 2015 – Photos







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Wayne, Katie, Sadbh and Cillian

Sunday, April 19, 2015

Sadbh’s update – April 19, 2015 – Photos & Quote of the day


Today we went to a crafts store to get some activity items for Sadbh. Katie explained to Sadbh what the plan was and that we would not be buying any toys. After thinking about this Sadbh responded with “If I see a beautiful toy and my heart wants it, I will let go of what my heart wants”.






All the best,

Wayne, Katie, Sadbh and Cillian

Saturday, April 18, 2015

Sadbh’s update – April 18, 2015 - Photos







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Wayne, Katie, Sadbh and Cillian

Friday, April 17, 2015

Sadbh’s update – April 17, 2015 - Photos







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Wayne, Katie, Sadbh and Cillian

Thursday, April 16, 2015

Sadbh’s update – April 16, 2015 - Photos







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Wayne, Katie, Sadbh and Cillian

Wednesday, April 15, 2015

Sadbh’s update – April 15, 2015 - Photos







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Wayne, Katie, Sadbh and Cillian

Tuesday, April 14, 2015

Sadbh’s update – April 14, 2015 - Photos






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Wayne, Katie, Sadbh and Cillian

Monday, April 13, 2015

Sadbh’s update – April 13, 2015 - Photos







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Wayne, Katie, Sadbh and Cillian

Sunday, April 12, 2015

Sadbh’s update – April 12, 2015 - Photos



 





All the best,

Wayne, Katie, Sadbh and Cillian

Saturday, April 11, 2015

Sadbh’s update – April 11, 2015


Sadbh woke up bright and early after a good night. We checked in on her throughout the night and thankfully this time she did not fall out of the bed.

After breakfast Sadbh got to Skype with Nana and Granddad and she modeled her little red riding hood cape that they sent her.

It was Clodagh’s birthday a few weeks ago so we decided to give her a horse-riding lesson as a birthday present. Since Sadbh had a lesson today we were able to get Clodagh booked in just after Sadbh.

We also invited Clodagh over for a sleep over to celebrate Sadbh’s birthday. Sadbh could not wait for her to arrive.
The two kids had a fantastic day and Clodagh was a natural on the horse. Sadbh was very distracted with having Clodagh there and lost interest in her lesson after half an hour or so.

Ali-Baba and Kirk came by in the afternoon for some birthday cake. Both Sadbh and Clodagh had huge slices so it did not take long for the sugar to kick in.

Clodagh hung out with Sadbh as Katie and I managed trach care and once we finished up the two girls spent a couple of hours building two fairy gardens.

Once dinner was devoured it was time to watch Tangled and by the time the movie was finished they were both very tired and ready for bed.
This will be the first time that Sadbh will have a friend sleep in her room with her so hopefully Clodagh will not be too freaked out with her medical equipment and the constant check ins by Katie and myself throughout the night.

 



All the best,

Wayne, Katie, Sadbh, Cillian and Clodagh.

Friday, April 10, 2015

Sadbh’s update – April 10, 2015


Sadbh had a great night and woke up shortly after seven. She was still in bed when Katie, Cillian and I barged in and started singing “Happy Birthday to You” to her. Even Jirapa joined in.
Sadbh was grinning from ear to ear and she could not wait to get up. Before getting out of bed she asked if Cillian could climb in for a snuggle first.

We had a very busy day and it started off with opening as many presents as possible.
She got to talk with her uncle, Ger, who she shares her birthday with. Happy birthday Ger!
Then she got to chat with Poppy and her cousins in Portland.

Afterwards we headed out to the Volunteer Park Café for breakfast. Sadbh had a ferocious appetite and ate half of Katie’s breakfast also.

Sadbh’s monthly trach change was scheduled for this weekend and earlier in the week she picked out her trach change toy. It was a Pocahontas doll and when I let her know that it arrived last night she was eager to get home to have her trach changed out. It was all she could talk about.

Once home we got trach care and change set up and Sadbh was a superstar. Cillian was great also and sat back and watched.
Everything went well and Sadbh got her new doll as soon as her new trach was secured and cleared out.

After trach change Sadbh got to Skype with Nini. They had not Skyped in ages and Sadbh was so excited to see and talk to her.

Sadbh had an important appointment in the afternoon. Katie had booked a tea party for us and Ali-Baba in the Queen Mary Tea Room. Sadbh got to enjoy afternoon tea along with all the trimmings. It was a very grand affair and she even got to wear her tiara as she sipped tea with her pinky held high.

Sadbh was very tired by the time we arrived home but a few more presents had arrived so she had to find out what they were. She received a CD player from Poppy and it was the perfect gift to listen to her new collection of read along books with CD’s.

Despite the constant treats throughout the day she still had a huge appetite and wanted a nice big healthy dinner before crashing out for the evening.
She’s back sleeping upstairs in her room next to ours since we chose not to have a nurse this weekend.

It often feels like the last four years have been forty years. Katie and I have had so many obstacles to deal with. Initially with Sadbh’s condition and her stay in hospital, dealing with home care nursing, insurance, medical supply companies and so on. But despite this we feel like we are the luckiest parents alive and have one incredible and amazing young lady in our lives. We are also very well aware that there are many out there that have it far worse than us and with each and every visit to Children’s Hospital we are humbled by what we see.


Blog update: I’ve been posting daily updates for Sadbh since she was born and this process takes an average of an hour every evening after Sadbh goes to bed.
With the addition of Cillian to our family and just managing life in general I have decided to end the daily updates after this weekend. I will continue to post photos on a daily basis (over 50 thousand photos of Sadbh so far…) and will post any major milestone or medical updates as they happen.
Thank you all for the constant support and Facebook likes. It’s been fun.







All the best,

Wayne, Katie, Sadbh and Cillian

Thursday, April 9, 2015

Sadbh’s update – April 9, 2015



Sadbh had a good night and woke up in a happy mood telling Jirapa about her up-coming birthday plans.

She spent the morning listening to CD’s in the sunshine and helping us with outside projects.  In the afternoon, Alibaba stopped by and she and Sadbh dug in the dirt to find worms.  Sadbh had a ball.

After a bath and trach care, Sadbh played for awhile and then got to watch her favorite “Pochohantas” movie before bed.  Trach change is coming up and Sadbh is very excited about it since she will be getting a Pochohantas doll.

When she went to sleep tonight, Katie told her that it was her last night sleeping as a 3 year old.  Hard to believe our little princess will be 4 years old tomorrow.  What a wild ride!





All the best,

Wayne, Katie, Sadbh and Cillian

Wednesday, April 8, 2015

Sadbh’s update – April 8, 2015


Sadbh needed to be suctioned around one in the morning and afterwards she slept soundly for the rest of the night.

She was in a great mood all day and despite having to hang around while Katie and I took care of our taxes and other boring bits of business.

We managed trach care shortly after getting home and once we were done Sadbh got to play in the sunshine in the back yard.

Later we headed out for a walk through the neighborhood and Sadbh got to stop off for ice cream on the way. She was thrilled with herself and this time she picked out a flavor that she liked, unlike previous visits when she picked out bubble gum or some other terrible flavor.

Bedtime tonight was so much easier and Sadbh was asleep moments after her head hit her pillow.





All the best,

Wayne, Katie, Sadbh and Cillian

Tuesday, April 7, 2015

Sadbh’s update – April 7, 2015


Sadbh slept like a log and hardly moved all night. She woke up a little after seven and was happy to see Mommy.

She had a good day and despite being stuck in the house all day she was in a great mood.

Our friend Lydia stopped by for lunch and Sadbh got to show off her huge chocolate Easter bunny, which is missing its ears.

All the fun and games in the house took it’s toll on Sadbh and before long she was starting to turn into a zombie. She lasted longer than expected and around five she passed out on the floor of the living room.

This time she was woken up with kisses from Cillian and when she woke up she had a big smile when she realized what was going on.

We managed trach care at bedtime tonight and we expected Sadbh to go to sleep fairly quickly as she was still very tired. This did not go quite to plan and it took over an hour for her to finally fall asleep.





All the best,

Wayne, Katie, Sadbh and Cillian

Monday, April 6, 2015

Sadbh’s update – April 6, 2015


Sadbh slept well for the most part but she did fall out of bed around midnight.
Her oximeter alarm woke us up and when I arrived in her room I found her spread out on the floor next to her bed. I was glad that I had laid pillows on the floor over the foot of the saline drip stand. If I had not I’m sure she would have hurt herself with the sharp edges.
She was in a deep sleep and did not wake when I put her back into bed.

Around six her airway sounded like it needed suctioning but since this would have woken her up and with her blood oxygen very close to 100% I decided to not suction and let her sleep on as long as she could.
By seven she was just waking up so Katie popped in for a snuggle.

Sadbh had a very good day and as usual she spent most of it playing and having fun.
Ali-Baba came by for a couple of hours to hang out and Sadbh was delighted with herself.
They spent the time reading, playing and being very creative. Sadbh has a great imagination and she had both Ali-Baba and I involved in her role playing throughout the day.

We managed trach care after Ali-Baba left today and once that was finished I started to move her medical equipment downstairs. She was not happy with this but instead of fussing she tried to create a distraction by asking me to play with her.
Sadly it did not work and before long I had all her equipment set up in her downstairs bedroom.

Sadbh was getting very tired as the day wore on and she refused to slow down or take a rest.  When she over exerts herself you can see her working hard to breathe and this obviously tires her out faster than usual. Nevertheless, she has a stubborn will and perseveres so as not to miss out on any of the action.

By bedtime she was hitting a wall. She could hardly keep her eyes open but despite this she kept asking Mommy questions like, “why is there an earth? Why are there stars? Why is there day and night?” And so on. She then said that she wanted to build an airplane so she could fly and catch a star of her very own.
Soon, after receiving her answers she dropped off to sleep.





All the best,

Wayne, Katie, Sadbh and Cillian

Sunday, April 5, 2015

Sadbh’s update – April 5, 2015


Sadbh’s night went well and she managed to keep her trach cap on for most of the night. It came off a couple of times when she struggled to breathe but all in all she did good, although she was really not happy about the entire situation. It will take 4-6 weeks to pull the results together and we have scheduled a follow up appointment with Dr. Inglis to go over those results in mid-May.
When she was awakened at 6am, Sadbh had hot coco, graham crackers and she got a prize from the amazing sleep study crew. She could not wait to get home once she woke up but it took a while for the technician to remove all the sensors and tape.

Sadbh and Katie arrived home shortly after seven and they both looked completely exhausted. Sadbh still had the residue from the tape all over her skin and hair so after breakfast we gave her a nice bath. The tape residue was difficult to remove but eventually we got her all cleaned up and ready for trach care.
Trach care was much easier today and once we were done we got ready to head over to Sarah, Gerry and Dylan’s for Easter brunch.
Sadbh was so excited to go see her friends and to go on the Easter egg hunt.

Despite being completely exhausted she kept going and managed somehow to keep up with her friends. I’m sure the mountains of sugar helped.

We all had a wonderful day with our good friends and when it came time to leave the kids were wiped out.

She fell asleep instantly on the way home but woke up quite grumpy just before we pulled up to the house. She had misplaced her Easter basket and was upset that she had not brought it home. Katie and I had been hoping that she would have forgotten about it but Sadbh has a memory like an elephant so we were out of luck.

Bedtime was a little later than usual but we all headed off to bed at the same time.
It’s nice not having nurses.





All the best,

Wayne, Katie, Sadbh and Cillian